两个孩子起了冲突，为什么欺负人的孩子会一次次重复之前的行为?那是因为在他的心里，自己道歉了就代表自己的改错态度，对方即便心里不愿意，也会迫于道德绑架原谅自己。甚至很多大人都如开头小女孩的母亲一样，主观意识里告诉孩子一个观念，那就是“对方道歉了你就得原谅，如果你不原谅你就是小器、胡搅蛮缠。”

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