童年时期，给我们留下主要刻录的事件有：早期分离、偏爱、被羞辱、被欺负、父母关系不好(争吵、离婚)、苛刻的父母、家庭暴力、物质匮乏(某些需求不能满足)等，这些创伤性的刻录，被内化到我们内在小孩的情感和行为模式里。

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